8 Mar 2012

Journee: She Rocks

i am so excited to start She Rocks on such a symbolic day as International Women’s Day, a day to celebrate all women.

HAPPY WOMEN’S DAY to all my lovely ladies!!!

and i am more than excited to have Journee kick off the series, her piece is wonderful, NOT TO MISS!!!


Rediscovering Myself

When TOI first told me about her series "She Rocks" and asked us to write what makes us feel like a women,  I honestly had to pause and think about it.  I was a bit hesitant about even writing something, because I didn't know.  After getting married and having a child I gave up a big part of my life and myself (but it is a sacrifice that I am happy I made) however, this left me in a place where I had to rediscover myself. 

I struggled with it for a while, because the things I used to enjoy I really couldn't do anymore.  I often found myself reminiscing on who I used to be and saying to myself "I remember when I used to read all of the time, but I don't anymore".  Or "Wow!  I really enjoy listening to jazz, but I quit"  Also, the things that used to make me feel womanly didn't make me feel womanly anymore, like wearing a pair of heels.  I don't go anywhere to wear heels.  Most days I'm tending to my baby and my hubby.

So what was I to do?  No offense to my husband or child, but I couldn't let them make me forget about who I was!  I had to understand that IT WAS NOT selfish of me to be more than a wife and a mother.  There was nothing wrong with me pursuing my dreams outside of them.  My dreams are what keep me alive and fresh!

I began dreaming again, like I used to do before I had a family.  I let my mind run wild, and I envision me fulfilling all of my goals.  After a while slowly but surely I began renew myself as a woman.

There are things that I am currently working on, that I want to pursue.  One being a business venture.  I have always wanted to have my own business.  This has been a dream of mine for quite some time.

I have a vision of myself accomplishing many great things in life, and I plan on making it happen.  I have found this is what I need in order for me to be a great wife and mother. 

Oh, and as far as rediscovering myself goes,  I am welcoming that with open arms.  I had to accept that I am a new woman and I need to stop holding on to the old me. I am now at a place where I can start rebuilding myself and develop new interest. I can start new and continue to become the woman that I've always wanted to be.

Thank you TOI for giving me an outlet to express myself! 



journee BIO: Journee is a child of God, wife, and a first time mommy. She is a mid-west girl at heart, and rocks her hair natural, and she is taking these task and challenges head on. You can find her blog at Journee Is Unique


Thank you again Journee for writing this beautiful piece.

Question: Which new interests are you developing?


  1. Happy Women's Day TOI!!! I liked this post from Journee. I think I have been struggling with the 'simple' things of what I used to do before I had a baby. I'm still working on finding the time to incorporate it all but this was definietly a good inspiration!

  2. @ The Mrs./The Mom Thank you very much!!!

  3. It is tough to get back to what you used to do, but I think it can be done. Just take it one day at a time and don't put unreal expectations on yourself. ;)
    Great post!

  4. What a beautiful story and thank you for teh sweet comments! Hope you will join our Thrifters Anonymous group and visit often..thanks again sweetie!


  5. Nice. I'm still trying to grasp who I am and who I want to be. Thanks for the inspiration.


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